Friday, August 7, 2015

Working those CURLS!



          When I began my natural hair journey, one of the first things that crossed my mind was "how would my hair be perceived at my job." Would they still see me as the professional that I am when I was rocking my natural curls?

          To my surprise, the first day I went to work rocking my natural hair was filled with compliments. I even had an interview wearing my natural curls and guess what! I got the job.

          I have found that the negative comments and responses that I have received have been from Afro-American women who typically where weaves, perms, or wigs. My mother always said if you don't have anything nice to say... So I will leave that alone. But if I do not like someone's hair style the last thing I would do if belittle their choice. If it is someone close to me I may tell them my opinion but I would never be mean about it. It is funny how everyone has an opinion when someone decides to embrace their natural beauty.

          What has been  your experience with your hair and changing hair styles or going natural?

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Oil Rinsing


Oil Rinsing
 Whether you call it oil rinsing, pre-pooing, coconut mask, or whatever, the results from oil rinsing are amazing. When I first began oil rinsing, I used extra virgin olive oil (EVOO). The EVOO worked well and I loved it … that is until I discovered coconut oil. Oil rinsing has many benefits including: eliminates or minimizes frizz, makes detangling easier, moisture retention, gives hair a natural luster and shine, as well as the benefit of making hair softer. My new wash day routine would not be complete without a coconut oil rinse.  

Here are the steps I use to complete this process:
1. part my hair into 4 sections;
2. with a spray bottle I dampen my hair with water (not saturate);
3. warm the coconut oil by rubbing my hands together (coconut oil melts at 76 degrees Fahrenheit or 25 degrees Celsius);
4. cover with a plastic cap for at least an hour (honestly I have fallen asleep like this);
5. OPTIONAL: add heat by sitting under a conditioning cap, hair dyer, or hair steamer;
6. rinse with warm water;
7. apply condition (I do not shampoo) and detangle;
8. rinse with cool water; and
9. style as usual.

This simple step has made all the difference in my hair and its manageability. Try it and let me know how it works for you. 

Thursday, May 14, 2015

The Denman Brush

THE DENMAN BRUSH

The Denman brush gets a great deal of praise, however, it also gets a bunch of flack. Often people modify the Denman brush by taking out rows of bristles. Some people also shy away from the Denman brush because they say it causes additional shrinkage (which we know is a curly girl’s frenemy).

Here’s my take on the Denman brush:

1.      The Denman brush is a styling brush and should not be used for detangling.  I repeat SHOULD NOT be used to detangle! Before using the Denman brush, you should completely detangle that section of hair. Detangling prior to use of the brush will eliminate the pulling and tugging on the hair which could result in hair breakage; 

2.      My experience with the Denman brush is that yes it does cause additional shrinkage. However, the shrinkage is caused by the Denman brush defining the curls; I happen to love defined curls. I will take defined curls over length any day. *Remember shrinkage happens when your hair is well moisturized. Therefore, shrinkage equates to healthy hair; 

3.      Imitation Denman brushes are available and can be less expensive.  Previously, I used another brand which was cheaper and it worked. I didn’t realize the difference until I bought the real deal. The authentic Denman brush works much better at smoothing my hair and defining my curls; 

4.      In place if the Denman brush many people choose boar, paddle, or vented brushes. Every curly girl knows that a boar brush is a complete and utter no-no! They pull your hair out and leave more hair in the brush that on your head. Paddle brush are flawed in my opinion because they cannot be properly cleaned.  As a curly girl, we know how much product we use; the paddle brush has padding which collects all the product and moisture and can cause mold under the padding. YUCK! Vented brushes have the little balls on the end and sometimes shorter bristles at the bottom of the brush which can catch and snag hair causing breakage. The Denman brush is constructed so that the rubber base and bristles can all be removed and thoroughly cleaned, and the bristles are all one piece which eliminates snagging and breakage; 

5.      The price-range for a Denman brush can be on the pricey side ($10-$15).  I know personally I have spent that on one hair product that didn’t work. Honestly, I think the Denman is worth the money; and 

6.      The other curly girl’s nemesis, frizz, is yet another reason that curlies do not like the Denman brush. I have never had any frizz from my use of the Denman brush. Typically, I get frizz from touching my hair before it is dry or not using a diffuser.  For me I usually get frizz after first or second day hair.

I like the Denman brush. I think it works for all curly girls. I would suggest them to anyone.  Try it out and let me know how you feel about it.




Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Natural Hair-Care Workshop



M.A.L.T. presents
Natural Hair-Care Workshop
Course Code:              14FFH08
When:                             Saturday, April 25, 2015
Time:                               10:00 am—2:00 pm
Where:                           Chestnut Hill Friends Meeting, 20 E. Mermaid Lane, Philadelphia, PA

Cost: $20 course fee + $17 Material Fee
Contact Info: www.mtairylearningtree.org
aliciabungy@gmail.com


Hair Growth

Hi Curly Girls (and Guys),

This is my first blog post.

I wanted to talk about hair growth. So often, we are obsessed with hair growth and cannot see our growth in the mirror. A couple of days ago, I took the photo on the top. Just for my edification, I decided to compare it to 9 months ago. I was completely surprised and pleased when I saw that there is actually a significant amount of hair growth. I am so guilty of wishing my hair would grow because I see other curly girls on Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest with exceptional hair growth. I realize that it takes time and patience. HOWEVER, patience is something that I am working on. I need to become more patient in my life in general. Now I am trying to learn to enjoy the journey and get to know my hair.

I am on a healthy hair journey and I have to keep reminding myself of that.